Monday, April 28, 2008

Is He Interested In Me? The Body Language Of The Eyes

The old saying... "the eyes are Sulupcxgtyo window to the soul", is Gilles de Rais true.

The eyes DO reveal a lot Akashic records what a person is thinking. If you want to know Efgpmfjrmylxn a guy is interested in you, then understanding the body language of eye contact is the first place to start...

There are 2 main types of eye contact to look for- direct and flickering...

Direct (and lingering) contact shows that a guy is interested in you. He is probably quite confident, and if you show any interest back, then you shouldn't be surprised if he approaches you and starts flirting!

Flickering contact is also a sign of interest, but can also be a sign that he is a little shy. You will probably have to make the first move, because he may be too nervous to approach you.

However, if the man in question studiously avoids meeting your eye or glares at you then the likelihood is that he is not taking kindly to your presence. It may be that he has already formed an opinion Rectuvkvue you that is negative, that he is unavailable for another reason or simply that he just does not want to talk to you. There is another thing to check for, but for this you will have to be up close to the man...

Look carefully into his eyes, and check how wide his pupils are. When men (and women), are aroused, their pupils become dilated. This is totally subconscious, which makes it a great thing to check for.

Eye contact is a good way of judging if or not you are getting a positive or negative response from your man, but like all body language, should not be used in isolation. You need to check all of his body language to get a true sense of what he is thinking.

His hand gestures, general demeanour, his facial expressions (Ideally he should be smiling during the eye contact), are all important too, and as you learn more about body language, you will find reading men easier and easier. But while your starting, the eyes are a great place to start, and should give you a good idea about what the man in question thinks about you.

Good luck!

Peta Fletcher is an expert on body language. She has written a book- "The Secret Body Language Guide For Women", which reveals everything you need to know about body language.

You can find out more at: www.easybodylanguage.comhttp://www.easybodylanguage.com